A self Reminder from Dian Pelangi

Siapa yang tidak mengenal nama Dian Pelangi? Seorang fashion designer muda yang cantik dan bertalenta. Lebih dahulu dikenal sebagai salah seorang fashion blogger, Dian menjadi idola para remaja dan dewasa muda berhijab atau kerennya hijaber. Stylenya yang colourful identik dengan nama yang diusungnya, rainbow, banyak disukai dan ditiru. Melihat market yang telah tercipta luas, Dian melebarkan sayapnya dengan membuka cabang di beberapa kota besar di indonesia, termasuk Batam.

Dian Pelangi juga aktif dalam menggunakan instagram. Pengikutnya lebih sari 4,5 juta orang baik dari dalam maupun luar negeri. Feedsnya keren, ditunjang kualitas foto yang profesional ditambah dengan caption yang menarik meski awalnya full English, membuatnya semakin terkenal. Selain itu Dian juga memperbolehkan para akun online shop untuk berdagang di kolom komentarnya, membuatnya semakin disukai. Saya termasuk memfollownya sejak tahun 2012, saat itu bahkan followernya belum mencapai 1 juta orang. 

Kiprahnya semakin berkibar mulai dari membintangi beberapa iklan di televisi, diundang jadi pembicara, dan  menjadi juri pemilihan gadis berhijab diikuti pengakuan dunia internasional dengan mengikuti London Fashion Week, New York Fashion Week dan lainnya.

Her life looks so perfectly happy. Her carrer going steady internationaly and she traveling a lot! She also sorounded by her very suportive family (her parent was merchants, her brother also her photographer), never ending bestfriend who called themselves Sisterhood, and a loving husband.

But suddenly, she filled for divorce!!
This kinda shocking me. Actually, I did stop open my instagram for a couple of months now, so I never saw her feeds recently, but as I rembembered they always (look like) a happy couple.

I keep wonder (like thousand of her followers and media, of course) why? What's her reason? Etc.

Then I realize, this is not my business, all I saw (from the photos nor television) only small percent of their life. They know what the best for them. The only thing I know, I should learn from her:
  1. Don't judge the book from it's cover. I did very envy when I saw their Maldives holiday picture few years ago. But then, who know what really happen when curtaim fall? We, let's I say, Indonesian, have tedency to   overated it or "lebay". If one couple seems so happy, we say it's "pencitraan", in the other hand, if the couple seldom take photo together, we jump to conclusion that there is somehing wrong with the relationship. What a shame on us.
  2. Don't take marriage for granted. I mean, some rumour in media said that this caused by his husband infedelity. So, if that was true, even a full combo woman like Dian got cheated, so, I think we should always becarefull. Not to make us insecure, but keep praying to Allah SWT to bless our marriage and mantain a good relationship with our spouse. Then, for me, I should consider to find a job ( in this case, open a notary office) soon. So, I can support my self and my child if (amit-amit *ketok meja). The worse thing ever happen in my marriage.
Well, that's all my thought. My pray for Dian and her husband, may Allah grant them the best.